As the president of the Personal Defense Institute and a certified firearms instructor of no
few years, I have the good fortune (or bad fortune, depending on your view) to interview
crime victims who seek out firearms training at PDI.
No fewer than 70% of the students who graduate from PDI are women and fully half of those
have been victimized in some way. Sexual assault, aggravated assault or stalking and
various other forms of predatory criminal activities are what drive these women to firearms
as the single most effective means of personal defense. Luckily, these same women also
accept the responsibility of firearms ownership and seek professional training. I only wish
more would do the same instead of living with the false sense of security that comes from
simply having a gun in the home.
The terrifying ordeals these women live through and the trauma, both physical and
emotional, leave deep scars that are ignored by most liberal politicians. Worse, these scars
are ignored by the very organizations that would have us believe they exist to empower
women.
For years, feminism has been thought of as a largely liberal philosophy. Conservatives have
traditionally looked upon the feminist movement as shaking the very core of the male/female
relationship, upsetting social morays that have existed for hundreds of years. Liberals, on the
other hand, have come to recognize that women have a definite place along side men in
every aspect of business, politics and the home. Whether or not the two sides will ever come
together politically or philosophically is not the reason for this
treatise. The left and right are too busy justifying their own
existance to the American public to spend time grappling with a
life or death problem
whose basis lies both in reality and a pool of innocent blood. The sad
fact is that women die at the hands of criminal predators while "civil
servants" and self-appointed "experts" or "leaders" dance on their
graves.
For women's organizations to avoid confronting the issue of gun control is tantamount to
them refusing to acknowledge that the sun rises in the east. Personal defense for women
should not only be an integral part of the social platforms of the
national women's groups, it
should be at the very top or at worst, second on the list of priorities.
For any recognized leader of the national women's movement to stand before supporters and
speak of empowering women without uttering so much as a syllable regarding empowering
women to defend themselves against personal attack is ludicrous. Women's organizations
that reject the reality of firearms being the single most effective means of personal defense
for a woman, are turning over the safety of those they allegedly represent to the rapists and
murderers of our nation. At the same time, they are actually subordinating women into the
role of "victim" by their refusal to embrace a woman's true right to defend herself.
The issue at hand is not one of a political nature. It cannot be denied that some individuals,
having less than pure intentions, will always undertake to create the impression that firearms
in the hands of women is indeed a political issue. Usually, these individuals will point a
finger at those in the conservative camp and declare that lives are being lost due to a glut of
firearms or a lack of regulation. Both claims are intentionally false and
meant to obfuscate the truth.
There is absolutely nothing political about a woman being repeatedly raped in her own home
by a sociopathic criminal recently released from prison while her husband, bound and
gagged, watches. Nor is there anything at all political about a young mother, whose only
legal defense is a paper-thin restraining order, being killed by an estranged or drunken
husband. There is nothing political about women being dragged from their cars by gang thugs
and being assaulted over a period of hours. There is certainly nothing political about a young
professional woman watching her parents die at the hands of a lunatic in a Texas restaurant.
What could possibly be political about a woman being raped in a New York City park while
her screams for help go unanswered? Women should be instantly suspect of any person who
would try to exploit such terror for political gain. Better than that, those who attempt such
repugnant tactics should be shown the nearest political exit. It has not escaped me that the
Clinton political machine has mastered such tactics and used them to pass impotent
legislation that further denies women the right of self-defense, and I hope it will not escape the
reader.
In the meantime, while well-protected politicians and self-serving "leaders" are patting
themselves solidly on the backs for protecting the rights of women, women are being beaten
and killed mercilessly one after the other, hour by hour, day by day. It's a senseless slaughter
that could be halted if those who enjoy the trappings of high office, public or private sector,
had the courage to truly empower women with social strength and not just use their positions
to peddle books or garner honorariums.
The conundrum is fairly easy to see. If these organizations were to agree that women in
America should be allowed or even encouraged to defend themselves against the useless
human refuse that preys on them, they would be in direct opposition the their current belief
that these poor wretches are somehow the product of social policy and therefore should not
be held accountable for even the most heinous of crimes. In order to agree that women need
the right to defend themselves with a firearm, a politician or "leader" would have to admit
that human vermin exists. Historically, the women of America have had their lives sacrificed
rather than have a politician or "leader" suffer the embarrassment of adjusting such a flawed
philosophy.
Worthy of equal consideration is the fact that not only have the major
influential women's organizations and leaders forsaken the rights and
needs of women who have already been victimized, they have turned their
backs on all women everywhere, in as far as personal protection is
concerned. This alone creates the potential for
literally hundreds of thousands of women becoming unecessary targets. If
those at the forefront of the women's movement do not have the courage to
admit that a real issue exists, if they do not wish to place the necessary
focus on the issue and if they only wish that the issue of women owning
guns would simply go away, then the women of America need new leaders.
The women of America, concur with gun control or not, need an advocate that will speak up
in cities across America and tell the public the truth about personal
defense. Those women who have come to accept the responsibility
for their own protection need to force the very real issue of
guns saving the lives of women into the national spotlight. Any effort to politicize the issue
needs to be immediately short-circuited and any subsequent attempt to do so, denied.
There is only one means of personal defense that has been proven to be immediately
effective for a woman facing an attacker and that means is a firearm in well-trained hands.
The arguments for hand-to-hand techniques, knives, chemical sprays and all of the
alternative methodologies should not be construed as being invalid. Quite the contrary is
true in fact. In the absence of a personal commitment to defend oneself with deadly force and
the belief that doing so is morally correct, other methods should be explored.
Women do need to be empowered. In the streets of America, men and women
alike fall prey to vicious felons around the clock. For the women's
movement to accept that personal
defense with a firearm is an issue to be whisked under a political rug is to draw an
imaginary target on the back of every woman in America along with a sign that reads, "Kill
me!"
Based upon my experience, the criminal will do just that.